So what I propose is a fixed width for a column of the grid (and locked) with the remaining columns auto-sizing.

In my situation, I have an action switch button where the client can delete a row, edit a row etc but the action code dropdown column needs to ALWAYS be the same width.  The rest of the columns should automatically size based on the existing behaviour.

   Now I have tried using the autosize for just that column, but I have to render the grid first, then run the autosize (which gives a fun show of resizing to the user) then all the columns become fixed width, but the vertical scroll bar doesn't move and stays in its initial position.