Workaround: create a derivative of the EditAppointmentDialog. Open the designer and adjust the form's height and button's position. Then replace the default dialog with the custom one: 

public RadForm1()
{
    InitializeComponent();
    this.radScheduler1.AppointmentEditDialogShowing += radScheduler1_AppointmentEditDialogShowing;
}
CustomEditAppointmentDialog dialog;
private void radScheduler1_AppointmentEditDialogShowing(object sender, Telerik.WinControls.UI.AppointmentEditDialogShowingEventArgs e)
{
    if (dialog==null)
    {
        dialog = new CustomEditAppointmentDialog();
    }
    e.AppointmentEditDialog = dialog;
}