This is reproducible only in the FluentTheme. Setting the RadCollapsiblePanel.SmallButtonsPerColumn to 3 does not make any difference. The workaround is to set a higher value for the ContentHeight property of RadRibbonView, for example 120px. The fix for this issue will be available with LIB (version 2018.3.1203) published on Monday, 3-rd December, 2018.
The ribbon tab doesn't get selec if you click in the exact middle of the header of RadRibbonTab.
To work this around, extract the ControlTemplate of RadRibbonTab and move the Grid with x:Name="ContentPanel" before the Grid with x:Name="HeaderPanel".
The HeaderVisibility property of RadRibbonTab doesn't work when changed at runtime.
A workaround is to use Visibility property of RadRibbonTab, instead of HeaderVisibility