To reproduce: 

1. When set the Disabled to true  of special day has not effect
this.radCalendar1.SpecialDays.Add(new RadCalendarDay(new DateTime(2014,7, 15)));
this.radCalendar1.SpecialDays[0].Disabled = true;

2. When set the Selected and Selectable to false, the special day is still can select and highlight
this.radCalendar1.SpecialDays[0].Selected = false;
this.radCalendar1.SpecialDays[0].Selectable = false;